Return of Rut Man

Yup, that's me. Stuck in a rut. Even my buddy from work, who has been there 20 years has bought a new house in the country, and is now taking a new job, is moving on. Why am I this way? I should learn something from his example. Although truthfully the new job was a fluke - word of mouth type of thing..... I dunno, I need a shake up. I am just afraid it will be something awful that shakes up my life, not something good.....